I think you are maturing and are in need of a different mind set about life and what kind of person you want to be - what kind of person you'd be proud and comfortable being. And you might need some new friends who are mature and interesting in a way that is different that the way you are used to. Develop a couple of new interests that really make you feel happy, and find people who share these interests. Most of all, do your best to just be a sweet and thoughtful person to others, and try really hard not to dwell on yourself...people will naturally like you because of your kindness.Why can't I connect with people/friends anymore?
Sometimes people suck! i will tell you that much. But maybe you need new friends and you also need to search for what you want out of life. I know how you feel. I feel like i cant connect with women sometimes, but i keep trying. There are people out there who you would find interesting. Good luck to you.
I'm starting to feel the same way. My advice, invest in an mp3 player and walk the campus (assuming you're still in school). Or if you're not in school, just do what you're normal routine is, and ignore other people. If you don't like being around other people, don't! Or find friends that you play with (tease each other), I found that they hold my attention more. That's all I do with one of my friends. We fight (push, sock each other, argue, talk sh*t about each other) but we ALWAYS hang out, and we're cool with each other, and would defend each other without question. We have a billion inside jokes. Just find a friend who you can pick on, and who picks on you, and it makes time go by so much faster. The ';how are you'; ';how was your weekend'; talks get boring as hell, I know.
I think I can relate, it's kind of an empty feeling. We just need to find ourselves again, remember what made us happy.
this happens also as we get older %26amp; change jobs people dont stay in contact. I rarely loan things out because it either comes back scratched or not at all. When i was 19 %26amp; stupid i loaned a co-worker $200 which was a lot of money to me to this day %26amp; 30 years later i never saw it fully repaid.
I wish I could help you, but I'm going through the same thing.
Sounds like you are very insecure. You may even be depressed (if you are religious I heard that going atheist helps, and if your not religious I heard looking toward God helps. Not quite sure if it's true, but I have heard many stories like this). And how old are you? Maybe age is playing a role in your changes because I'm going through changes with family, friends, memory, almost everything! Just think good thoughts, and find things that will make you happy.
I've been feeling the same way.
I ask myself the same question.
This is what I've come up with.
We are SO bored of the same old routine, we want someone to just say everything we want them to say. It's like were all selfish, %26amp; we all want things a certain way, otherwize it wouldn't be of interest to us. So we turn away. Also, I think it's because of our own insecurities (as you said) we no longer feel good enough, we feel like we have to be a certain person, say something in a certain tone of voice, look a certain way, %26amp; all of this. I don't know if I'm making any sence to you but wth I'm going for it. Lol, pretty much were ';caught up'; with life, we feel overwhemled with everything around us %26amp; we want to improve at the same time. It's all just a mess you know?
People think too much I think, I do as well.
I think we all just need to ';chill'; %26amp; not over think anything.
Just go with the flow %26amp; leave the past in the past.
Don't be afraid to express yourself, believe in yourself, meet new people, open your harisons lol for real
Live simple you know?
I hope I've helped.
Take care.
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