Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How to connect with people and make friends if I'm very uncomfortable talking about my past?

It is not all that awful and at some point I could get courage to talk about it but not yet. Yet I wanna make new friends and meet new people


And I'm kinda insecure how to go about it Plz help. ThxHow to connect with people and make friends if I'm very uncomfortable talking about my past?
who did you kill?How to connect with people and make friends if I'm very uncomfortable talking about my past?
You need to see your past as a totally separate subject to making friends. The past as damaged your confidance and makes u more aware of urself that why you find it hard to make friends鈥 had some problems in the past my mother had a nervous breakdown and I was very with drawn I had to look after my brothers etc made me become a bit more mature than other people and look at things different 鈥?I find it hard talking to people sometimes cos I question what they think of me etc鈥?my advice is to just be yourself work on urself, make urself feel good, foucs on u and build up your confidance and the rest will come xxx maybe try a hobbie too xxxxxxxxxxxx
If you don't want to talk about your past then don't talk about your past.





If you're a man you got solve these questions yourself, if you're a woman then... you'll just need to make friends.





No I don't do friends, so I can't help you.
why do you have to talk about your past, that has gone, be in the moment, and try not to think about it, it's only in your head. let it go, it should not concern other people anyway.


Make friends and forget the past.
Why would you talk about your past? Just avoid the subject and tell them about present things. I never talk to my friends about my past. We talk about what we have in common. I mean I think thats why people have friends. They have something in common.
basically you should just go up and talk about the future you want and see what they are interested in and describe what you are in to and also help people in ways they don't expect
No-one is obligated to open themselves up to every stranger they meet, just edit around what you don't want to reveal and be confident.
Most new friends don't want to hear a lot about our past. They would rather just take us the way they see us so don't worry about it. But repent so that God will help you do the right things next time.
You just dont mention anything about your past.


Talk about the present and future =)


Smile, relax and just act confident
chillax bro
We all av past we don't want to talk about. It shouldn't stop u from making friend and connecting.
chill
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